Ways to Turn Her On: A Personal Guide

Let’s be real—guys, when it comes to turning her on, it’s not just about what you do, but how you do it. It’s all about connecting, being in the moment, and making her feel special. If you want to step up your game, here’s a list of things you can do to turn her on—some classic moves, a few new tricks, and some unexpected tips that'll help you keep things exciting.

• Appreciating her naked beauty – Before anything physical, let her know how beautiful and desirable she is. Make her feel wanted and admired.
• Combing her hair – Start off tenderly by running your fingers through her hair. It’s a subtle, intimate move that sets the tone.
• Sensual undressing – Take your time and undress her slowly, using your mouth for extra sensuality. The anticipation will heighten the moment.
• Neck play – Soft kisses, nibbles, and gentle bites on her neck can create instant chemistry and get her in the mood.
• Kissing her lips messily – Long, messy kisses with her lower lip between yours set a passionate tone and show your eagerness.
• Tongue on her spine – Gently trace your tongue down her spine. It’s unexpected, and the sensation can be incredibly arousing.
• Licking her nipples – Moving from the neck, go down to her chest. A classic, but it never fails to get her going.
• Teasing around her nipples – Don’t just go straight for them—tease by hovering your fingers or lightly touching around her nipples to build anticipation.
• Kissing under her boobs – Don’t forget the area under her breasts; kissing there can be a nice surprise that turns her on.
• Licking and biting her ears – The ears are highly sensitive, and a little licking followed by a gentle bite can really turn up the heat.
• Tongue work on inner thighs – Slow down and work your way down her inner thighs with your tongue. The buildup creates desire.
• Clit stimulation during sex – Don't neglect the clit. Pay attention to it during sex for a heightened level of pleasure.
• Biting nipples after foreplay – After you’ve spent time stimulating her, a soft bite on her nipples can drive her wild when done at the right time.
• Locking fingers with hers – Holding hands and locking fingers, especially during intimate moments, creates a deeper bond and sense of connection.
• Talking dirty in dominant positions – Dirty talk can be incredibly arousing, particularly in dominant positions like doggy, where it feels more intense.
• Forget fingering, try thumbing – Thumbing, rather than fingering, can be more subtle but can create a deeper sense of pleasure for her.
• Helping her orgasm again – If she’s willing and comfortable, helping her orgasm again after she’s already climaxed can make the experience even more intense.
• Going down on her – Classic, but always a go-to move that never fails. Going down on her shows care and attention to her pleasure.
• Shaving her (If she’s comfortable) – If she’s into it, helping her shave can be an intimate, sensual experience that also makes her feel pampered.
• Whispering sweet nothings – Lean in close and whisper sweet, sexy, or even playful things in her ear. The closeness and intimacy of your voice can have a huge impact.
• Teasing with ice – Use an ice cube to slowly trace around her body, especially sensitive areas like her neck, inner thighs, and lower back. The cold sensation mixed with warmth can be a thrilling experience.

Fortress

At first, you held your breath, eyes wide with restraint,
But now I taste it—the hesitation in your lips, faint.
A fleeting thing, gone as quickly as your walls fall,
I pull away the fabric slowly, watching you squirm, small.
Under the weight of the unspoken, the scent of you so near,
A secret no longer holding you back, no longer a fear.

You inhale sharply as I press closer still,
The tension between us dissolving like ice in the thrill.
Your hands are clenched, fighting to hold back,
But I see it—your body betrays the attack.
Your legs part, and I follow, inch by inch,
Devouring you, my tongue tracing your resistance, which stings.
Until your moans slip from your lips like an oath,
A vow you never planned to swear, now lost, now both.

You were a fortress, but now you're mine,
The way you arch, desperate for more, entwine.
Your nails dig in, teeth gnashing in frustration,
A confession in itself, a raw temptation.
You thought you could stay distant, cold,
But now you melt, your surrender bold.

Let me stay here, where the world has no place,
Where every breath we take is a stolen embrace.
I’ve crossed every line, with nothing to hold,
And you, too, have crossed into me, breaking the cold.
Your body no longer holding back,
Your pleasure now my purpose, no turning back.